How should I ask my parents about puberty

geez i got the pubrty talk when i was 9, but i started wearing a bra when i was 9.

just come up with a simple question, like ' mom, i accidentaly found this ( explain a tampon, without using the word tampon ) in my friends purse when she asked me to get something, what is it? ' then she was have to explain what a tampon is, then saying what its used for ( periods ), then she will have to explain what a period is, then explin puberty b4 u get ur period.

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Play stupid with your mom. She doesnt yet seem to realize how intelligent you are. This may sound foolish, but ask her what she does to keep her breasts supported. She' will tell you and then ask her if your ready for one.

Hoped I helped.

how old are you? i wore a bra when i was like 11. and All my friends did too..
and just be like ''mom i want a bra''
start of with sports bra..
and then get a non wired one then get a wired when u need it.
now i only were wired bras!!!
they rock!!

lol. i started wearing bras since i was like 7. Completly flat. But anyways i think that u should go get them yourself. Its not that bad. You said that u have shirts that have bulit in bras but they dont know so just keep it the same as with regular bras. I highly douvt that ur mom will yell or make u throw em out. Your friends arent ready for bras yet so they ,ay think the same as you. But if u really dont wana keep anything away from them then I suggest one day go to the mall with ur mom, & jus say ''i need some bras'' If she says why then just tell her u r uncomfortable not wearing them. She will understand. ^_^

Even though it feels embarassing, u have to remember that ur mom was a young girl once too. Maybe u could look through an ad from ur favorite store from the newspaper or something & just say something to ur mom like ''Hey, they have the same bra that Shannon (but say the name of one of ur friends) has on sale.can I get one?'' That way ur mom will know that some of ur friends r starting to wear them & u want one too.

Your mom is going to be the one person that u can trust to love u no matter how embarassing ur questions r over the next few years. It would be really smart of u to start getting comfortable talking to her now so that later, when there r BIG questions to ask, it wo not be so awkward. Good luck sweetie!

Well I never had that problem with my mom because she knew I'd need one anyway someday soon. Also my next door neighbor who is older than me she helped me with my bra problem. She gave me a training bra that she had not worn before & so I started wearing one. You could try talking to her about it You've lived with her ur whole life so she should understand & she wo not bite. It is the safest bet because if they find out later they might get mad that they did not go with u to buy ur first bra u know how moms r they charish memories.

ok hun.your mom is a girl, she was ur age once, she has boobs, she has been in the same situation as you. just tell her ''mom, i think i need a bra'' or next time ur out shopping ask her to help u pick one out.

i will tell u something.when i was first developing i didnt think anything of it & my mom approached me. that made me feel like a tard, the fact that my MOM noticed little boobies before i did. go to her, she will understand. like i said, shes a girl & she has boobs.its no big deal

oh yeah & forget it if ur friends think its weird to have a bra already.they're just jealous because ur getting boobs before them. also if u dont feel comfy with a regular bra try a sports bra first

yea i remember when i first asked my mom for a bra years and years ago, its embarassing but hun, one day that stuff wont bother you to talk to your mom about because its normal.

when you are out shopping, take her into the isle and say mom (or dad) i am ready for one of these now, sure it will be embarassing but you will only be in ''hot seat'' for about a second when you mom will say oh my little girl is growing up and then buy you your lady wear. good luck :)

While the two of you are at the store, find a cute bra, and ask if she can buy it for you.

Just be honest with her: Tell her that ur boobs r growing & that its time u need a bra. She will take u to a clothing store & she will help u pick out a bra. Plus it is a chance for the two of u to bond as women. If u want to know about puberty:

- Puberty starts in girls anywhere from 8 to 16 (usualyy 9 to 11)

- The first sign in girls puberty is that their ovaries start to enlarge

- This is followed by a growth spurt

- The third stage is breasts develop

- The fourth stage is pubic hair grows around the vaginal area

- About 1 to 2 years after the first sign of breast developing, a girl will start her period. At first the period may be irregular but will even out to once every 28 days

god.wat eva you do dont go to your mom..xD so embarrassing omg..
just go with your friends.and like when they notice you have one be all.'yeah.i went with my friends'

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you can do it passive aggressively like: ''OMG I went to school and for some weird reason guys were all staring and making comments about my chest! I asked about it to my friend ____ and she said they could see through my shirt! What should I do mom?''

Just ask, they are probably expecting you to ask anyway, never underestimate you parents.

Just be like mom hey can we go to the store sometime soon? And then when you go be like, ''Oh yea I was wondering if maybe we could look at some bras?'' Her answer will most likely be yes and then things will go along there. Good luck!!

I would sit down with you mom and talk to her about it. Tell her that you feel the need for a bra. they have training bras out there that are made especially for the beginners.